london_writing ([info]london_writing) wrote,
@ 2006-03-14 14:33:00
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*tap* *tap* Is this thing on?

Wow, that's some dust bunny hiding under this journal.  

I love the concept of LiveJournal as it pertains to community.  I especially love the friendslist (even if I dislike the use of the word "friends" in this context) and the ability to create reading lists.

However, it's the journal concept of LiveJournal that I've been a little slow on.

So I'm resolving to change that.  Starting with a name change.  No more wanna_write, although I still do want to write.  This ties this journal in with my other home on the net, http://londonwriting.blogspot.com, which I use to (occasionally) journal my expat experience. 

I never know whether to use my real name or not on the internet.  Caution and a healthy fear of identity theft (I've had brushes with it in the past) have kept me semi-anonymous.  Plus, I have an unusual name, both first and last, so I tend to shy from putting my name out there because if I do something stupid or embarrassing (and I will), it's pretty hard to say, "Oh, no, that was the OTHER person who shares my name!"  Also, there's the whole connectedness thing I like about LiveJournal, but what if people come here and, like, hate me?  I do tend to err on the sarcastic and over-dramatic-for-the-sake-of-making-a-point side, after all.   After all, the internet doesn't come with video screens - yet - and so you can't see my expressions.

Wired had an interesting article about misreading e-mail.  According to the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology , in a recent study people only correctly interpreted the sender's ton 50% of the time.   But they think they correctly interpreted it 90% of the time.

Inbetween, lie the flame wars.  :-)

I've been in a few scuffles and I've seen my share of verbal fisticuffs, which is another reason to keep quiet on the journal front.  After all, what if I say or do something stupid in the heat of the moment   and the world de-"friends" me?  I shouldn't care - well, yeah, I know I shouldn't, but I'm pretty hard-wired to want people to like me.  But nothing ventured, nothing gained, and all those cliches.




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[info]amazoniowan
2006-08-05 12:55 pm UTC (link)
That email thing is so interesting. And true.

It always disturbs me, too, because I think I have this assumption that, as a writer and a "smart reader," I should be able to both convey my tone and figure it out in others' stuff. Not always true.

But then, that ambiguity is probably important in writing, too -- I love it when Beta readers come back from my stuff with a whole different spin on a character than I intended, and when they defend it, I can see it.

But ambiguity is a bitch in email. I wonder if it can even be helped. Is it that we want to read something in, so we do? Friendship, antagonism? Or is it just that it's damn hard to convey tone in text?

Pardon me while I leave deep thoughts in your journal before 8AM. Of course, it should be much later in the day for you . . . .

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